tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9260269.post111747396876055231..comments2023-09-14T19:04:03.738-07:00Comments on many a mile to go **: Coming outCasshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04551097088915179208noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9260269.post-1117539997266257942005-05-31T04:46:00.000-07:002005-05-31T04:46:00.000-07:00That's a tough call. If it were me, I'd probably ...That's a tough call. If it were me, I'd probably just avoid her altogether. If you do send a note, be careful about what you expect from her reaction. Pregnant women are crazy (at least that's what I tell myself when I'm feeling more charitable). I finally confronted my friend (of "evil pregnant former best friend fame") about the fact that her complaints about her pregnancy were really Bittermamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13130551051224443601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9260269.post-1117513923361661672005-05-30T21:32:00.000-07:002005-05-30T21:32:00.000-07:00I have found it is a relief to tell people - not e...I have found it is a relief to tell people - not everyone, just those who would be affected by my absences or who truly know and care about me. So, I've ended up telling most of my co-workers, close friends and family. I feel better - particularly at work - because I'm not sneaking around.<BR/><BR/>As far as the details of a specific cycle, unless I would tell that person if I miscarried, then IAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9260269.post-1117503698425176392005-05-30T18:41:00.000-07:002005-05-30T18:41:00.000-07:00I agree, gauge what you tell by the person you are...I agree, gauge what you tell by the person you are telling. Keep yourself well and hopeful, and protect yourself as much as possible from asshats.Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15677486759919091018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9260269.post-1117490109621206962005-05-30T14:55:00.000-07:002005-05-30T14:55:00.000-07:00At some point, not so very long ago, I started tel...At some point, not so very long ago, I started telling. Not so much because it was a considered decision but because I felt like my head was going to blow up. On the whole I'm glad I've started telling because now people don't think I'm just nutso. And it's really cut down on the whole so when are you going to have a baby type conversations that were driving me batshit. About your friend--I Digging Out Slowlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15127371643579549363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9260269.post-1117485754857068532005-05-30T13:42:00.000-07:002005-05-30T13:42:00.000-07:00Wow, you are doing great and so very brave. I hav...Wow, you are doing great and so very brave. <BR/><BR/>I have a bad habit of avoiding situations that would make me uncomfortable so I have nothing clever to say about your friend at the wedding. I probably would avoid her like the plague and that is not very nice.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you and hope you are well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9260269.post-1117476551211482722005-05-30T11:09:00.000-07:002005-05-30T11:09:00.000-07:00I've actually found that telling has taken a lot o...I've actually found that telling has taken a lot of the stress off and almost everyone has been wonderfully supportive and helpful. Of course, YMMV but I'd go ahead and tell your friend however it's easiest for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com